10-08-2004, 11:37 AM
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Female's Advise II haha
sounded like a broken record here...but here it goes.....
so i started dating this chick up here, shes a doll....5'5'ish blonde hair, green eyes, tan, ....teaches 4th grade.....so heres the deal...
we are really open with eachother.....and shes had sex, 3 partners, but she doesnt want it again till shes married (something about ..well hell i dont remember)...i told her, thats cool, doesnt bother me .....everything was fine...
well she came over before i had to go to work the other night, and we started messing around, yadda yadda yadda we left smiling.....well last night she had to go to a funural with a friend out of town, and girls talk, so she text me wigging out about this sex thing, ....talking about, do u think this is going to make it harder to resist....just like going on and on and on about it....and i told her, NO, if i was going to try to have sex with you, i would have done it last night...
is there anything i can do/say....i mean next time she wants to mess around, do i need to just stop it and tell her i dont want to, because i dont want her to think i want it or expect sex or something.....i never had this problem before....
tonight she wants to go out, and wants me to come spend the night with her so i can sleep with her *which is cool*.... i dont know if this thread makes any sence....
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10-08-2004, 11:56 AM
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Chicks!
She prpobably doesn't want you to think she is easy, but she wants it bad bro.
Sounds like she may be having a moral delimma. Just fuck her and she will chill out. THAT IS WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS.
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10-08-2004, 12:00 PM
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haha, i duno man...she says she doesnt want it, then she isnt going to get it....its goign to be where she actually does, but i wont belive her, and not do it.....i duno, just weird
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10-08-2004, 12:04 PM
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never know for sure those things can be hard to read. at least you have the opportunity to have this to consider in the first place.
I am just saying in my experience women will say and do things so you don't think they are easy. they want you to respect them and all that. do you like her? if so make her make the move and then let her have it. otherwise respecting her wishes will only make her respect you and want you even more. i vote for making her make the move. tell her she said she wants to go slow, so if she wants it she is gonna have to take it. sounds cool anyway.
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10-08-2004, 12:08 PM
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yea defiantly....i wont make any move, never do, i make them make the moves ..i know its a turn off for girls...but if a girl tells me she wants it this way/that way/moral way whatever...that puts a block around me, and i think ..'well when u want it, u'll make the move, since you just limited me to nothing'...that way ur never a bad guy or anything
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10-08-2004, 03:28 PM
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She's a drama queen... don't take her words at face value.
Now, post this same thing in the convo forum so you can get some testosterone-charged answers that aren't appropriate in the women's forum.
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10-08-2004, 03:34 PM
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hahahh why u think i posted it in here...
the only remark i would get in the convo would be
'do her in the butt'
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10-08-2004, 03:38 PM
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I'm sure I'm gonna get flack for this from the rest of the ladies but you asked for honesty so here goes......
She's feeding you a line. Yes she likes you but she wants you to see her as "moralled" and "respectable".
She probably wants you in the sack just as much as you want her but she's making a game of it. The fact that you're respecting her "wishes" whether real or not makes you more desirable to her.
Us women can be catty like that.
Best advice? Go to the movies tonight and then go home. Do NOT sleep over. If she asks why tell her you don't think it's appropriate given her decision on things to sleep in her bed. You wouldn't want her to struggle with her "morality".
You come off looking like a saint and her game is over. Stick by this decision. Trust me on this. She's running game.
When you get home tonight, because you will ( she won't admit defeat), ask yourself if you want to be with someone that puts this much thought and effort into screwing with your head.
Kudos to you for being the gentleman. You're a sweetie.
If all you're looking for is a fling then maybe she's worth the effort. It's a challenge.
If you're looking for a relationship, call her bluff. Bear in mind that she's already playing games.
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10-08-2004, 03:43 PM
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yea...hmmm....i duno....makes sence....
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10-08-2004, 03:45 PM
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yea...hmmm....i duno....makes sence....
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Doesn't have to make sense to you, hun. Just trust me. Do NOT sleep over.
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10-08-2004, 05:10 PM
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If we were in the convo forum I'd say something like
"Don't be such a fucking pansy. She wants to give it up; but noooooo you're such an effiminate little fuck that you can't see the forest for the trees.
Save yourself, Estrogenboy. Show her that you aren't a candy-ass and talk her into it. Don't even lie to her. Just be an ass. When she says things like "I want you to respect me afterwards", you say something like "but I don't respect you now" then grab her by the hair, pull her head back, stick her tit in your mouth and rub her cit till she begs you to treat her like a piece of objectified little ass."
That's what I'd say if we were in the convo forum.
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When your entire self worth is based on your cunt's ability to act as a cock magnet, some issues are bound to arise.
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10-09-2004, 01:15 AM
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If we were in the convo forum
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You're not.
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10-09-2004, 12:15 PM
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If we were in the convo forum I'd say something like
"Don't be such a fucking pansy. She wants to give it up; but noooooo you're such an effiminate little fuck that you can't see the forest for the trees.
Save yourself, Estrogenboy. Show her that you aren't a candy-ass and talk her into it. Don't even lie to her. Just be an ass. When she says things like "I want you to respect me afterwards", you say something like "but I don't respect you now" then grab her by the hair, pull her head back, stick her tit in your mouth and rub her cit till she begs you to treat her like a piece of objectified little ass."
That's what I'd say if we were in the convo forum.
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Yeah, sounds about right to me...
I figure I'd say something along the lines to that, plus a "do it in her butt" reference of course.
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Slam it, poon.
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10-11-2004, 01:39 PM
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You're not.
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Your firm grasp of the obvious makes me hot for you.
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When your entire self worth is based on your cunt's ability to act as a cock magnet, some issues are bound to arise.
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10-11-2004, 02:31 PM
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Your firm grasp of the obvious makes me hot for you.
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LOL! It's a talent. 
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