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    having issues with my wife
    I got an issue that seems to be causing problems in my relationship.. Since being on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) my libido is higher then it was and it was high before even with having low t. Now my wifes desire is not as high as mine and its frusterating to say the least..

    Is there anything i can suggest to my wife to really boost her libido so we can get on the same page as we used to be???

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illtemper View Post
    I got an issue that seems to be causing problems in my relationship.. Since being on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) my libido is higher then it was and it was high before even with having low t. Now my wifes desire is not as high as mine and its frusterating to say the least..

    Is there anything i can suggest to my wife to really boost her libido so we can get on the same page as we used to be???
    I'm in the same boat brother. I'm interested in this as well. Truth is though, women don't have nearly the level of testosterone that we do so theres no way they're sex drive will be as high as ours. I am interested to know if there is anything that would help boost the female libido though.

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    Rufies, and tequila

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    just bang her good without a condom for at least 30 minutes straight and you should be satisfied for once or twice a week. stop watching porn

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    Quote Originally Posted by cjw2021 View Post
    just bang her good without a condom for at least 30 minutes straight and you should be satisfied for once or twice a week. stop watching porn

    Hell no man I want it 3-4 times a day. Once or twice a week? You got to be kidding me.

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    i have heard about giving your chick cialis... iv never done it though so dont quote me on it

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    meathead if u need it 4 times a day ur not doing it right or u need to go exercise or stop injecting 400mg a week lol or stop watching porn and wackin off which just makes you hornier by elevating inflammatory prostaglandins. if u hit that shit on your side for 30 minutes straight at a good speed and then bust a nut in it all without a condom ull be cool. We were not designed to fuck 4 times a day everyday. try out my advice. to me wanting it 4 times a day is a god damn curse if you actually want to be productive in my case.

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    cjw like our testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) protocols, diets, exercise regimens we are all different. Not everyone can live with it once or twice a week. It's just that simple.

    I deal with this same issue of a sexual desire mismatch. Telling someone to not have sex or desire less sex is like telling someone to breath less. We all require different amounts of oxygen to survive. It's not surprising to me that even different men require different amounts of sex to feel normal.
    Last edited by transcend2007; 10-26-2011 at 12:11 AM.

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    Fucking get a girl that's: fit, not on BC and more important who's mode of expressing affection/love is doing stuff for/with you.

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    Once a day for me, skip a day and that shits getting pounded hard

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    Quote Originally Posted by MoparMuscle View Post
    Fucking get a girl that's: fit, not on BC and more important who's mode of expressing affection/love is doing stuff for/with you.
    I'm sure the OP loves his wife and wants to stay with her. He just wants them to be on the same page in the bedroom. Dropping the woman for another one just because of this is not always the answer especially when you love that person and have been with them a long time. Truthfully though, I don't know if I could do it if I wasn't getting it several times a week. Yeah I'm shallow.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KaiserSose View Post
    Rufies, and tequila
    this sounds like the best idea so far ha ha

    but i have herd the Cialis thing too!

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    well im not gonna argue with anyone. all im gonna say is u wonder why your wife hates you when all you wanna do is fuck her every instant the entire time. lol keep watching porn and jacking off and getting your 15 minute rides in that just make you hornier.

    I know this because I used to be a hardcore sex addict. You guys that have this problem should try to control it with taurine or 5htp or gaba to slow down the dopamine-adrenaline conversion and lower the inflammatory prostaglandins. I'm not prescribing morality to anyone here, I'm just saying that I exhausted my adrenal glands having too much sex and now I rely on dhea, hydrocortisone, and fludrocortisone just to function. I care about you guys and don't wanna see anyone exhaust their adrenal glands by wacking off or screwing 3 times a day everyday. Combine this with burning through adrenal hormones working out in the gym everyday and get back to me in a couple years and tell me how your adrenal hormone output is.
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    I had a major problem with my wife too. I did not realize it at first, but it turns out that I had a lot of resentment built up towards her because she was not putting out. My resentment was spewed out all at once during an hour-long ranting and raving session that was sparked by some stupid argument that had nothing to do with that. I hated that I was always the one who would initiate sex. I hated feeling like a horny dog that wants to hump all the time. I explained how terrible it felt when I thought that maybe she just did not find me good looking, exciting, or sexy any more, or that she just viewed me as an old perv. I became extremely irritated and downright angry when she would push me away in bed. I believed she was paying more attention to a bunch of stuff that was completely irrelevant to me (her soap operas or her long chats with her friends, etc.), and this burned me up inside. I reminded her that I had tried talking to her about this problem, but that she always trivialized the problem and basically ignored me. Nothing changed for so long and what the fuck was I supposed to do? Cheat on her? I let her have it. I told her how I felt, how she was making me feel, and that she was slowly driving me away and that I could not take it anymore. I really went off on her and made her feel like shit. I was sincere, and I think she realized what this was doing to me. In the end she realized what was going on and she apologized. I started to have incredible sex again, and much more often. Things have been great since that time. I could have sex every day if it were up to me and things are still far from what I would want them (sex 4-5 days/week), but they have improved quite a bit and I am OK with that. Talking to your wife works. You may have to try multiple times, and you may very well need to have a heated exchange for this to sink in to your wife, but if you keep trying, and if the two of you love each other, thern it will work. Be careful not to make things worse though - don't let this backfire on you.... Think about your approach ahead of time. You need to help her figure out what the lack of enough sex is doing to you.....

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    My wife wants it about the amount as me, before testosterone replacement therapy (TRT) shw wanted it more.. she just had me make "sexy dinner with her for 35 min tonight (do it in the kitchen while she's cooking/ovens going).

    Everyone's sex drive is different men and women

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    Quote Originally Posted by Illtemper View Post
    I got an issue that seems to be causing problems in my relationship.. Since being on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) my libido is higher then it was and it was high before even with having low t. Now my wifes desire is not as high as mine and its frusterating to say the least..

    Is there anything i can suggest to my wife to really boost her libido so we can get on the same page as we used to be???
    When were you on the same page and what was different?

    In my case, here's a few things that have made this basically a non-issue.

    First and foremost, there's been some talk around here regarding the benefits of Cialis for women. Let me just say it works, plain and simple. While I cannot say it significantly altered our frequency, it did significantly improve arousal etc. etc. I would strongly suggest you give that a shot.

    Also, even before I got on Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), I had a pretty strong libido and we were having sex consistently 3-4 times a week, despite being married for over 20 years. There's a ton of information available on this very subject if you have the desire to be a student. I have read 3 or 4 books and each of them provided some good insight.

    One good example is a book titled "She Comes First". Sounds kind of gay, but it was a good read. There are a million others like it, but in many cases, increasing a woman's libido is kind of an art form and it is a worthy subject to study.

    The other thing that has happened as a result of Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) is my body looks better. Through nutrition, fitness and Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT), my wife is signifcantly more attracted to me. I have noticed recently that during sex her hands are all over my pecs, triceps, back, glutes etc., and I can tell she loves feeling hard muscle. This may or may not apply to you. If you are not muscular or defined yet, start working on it. Add in a nutrition plan and hit the gym.

    On several occasions over the last couple weeks after we both cum, I just stay inside her while she feels my glutes etc. What do you think happens???? Yup, she goes again.


    I would also make sure that you are realistic about her potential range of frequency versus yours. I don't know what the gap is now for you, but even if she maxes out, it may or may not be at your level. We have a bit of an unspoken expectation that during the week I do whatever I can to help out the wife, but come Friday night it's balls to the wall until sundown on Sunday. Our weekly average hovers around 4-6, which I am ok with and she isn't complaining any either.

    Last but not least, does your wife have even the slighest notion that she needs to meet certain expectations to keep you around? Women are genetically mapped to do two things, find a good man and then keep him around. They usually land a good man with sex or sex appeal and keep him around by beating him down until he is competely submissive. While most all married women value loyalty and predicability, it certainly does nothing for their libido because it just isn't attractive.

    It's been my experience that if the wife in a marriage never, ever, ever, ever for one fleeting second has the thought that her husband could possibly be out the fucking door if she doesn't give him a reason to stay, then the husband is usually not getting it when and how he likes it.

    I apologize if any or all of this does not apply, but like I said, I've studied this shit and that's my advice to you. Research it, learn it, live it and then fuck your wife until she can't do math.....

    If she doesn't like it, tell her good luck explaining to all her friends that she left her husband because he was ripped, horny and so attracted to his wife he couldn't stop banging her....

    cry me a fucking river!


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    You guys just gotta remember your girlfriend is probably not on hormones, and women get sexual exhaustion symptoms too. It's easy for us on TRT...we just wake up with another hardon the next day. But if you are a middle aged woman and expected to put out 6 days a week or more without hormones and neurotransmitter precursors it's just unhealthy. If you guys don't believe me when I talk about the damage excessive sex can do to people...please check out this website. Theory of Sexual Orgasm and Sexual Exhaustion Symptoms plenty of women there with all sorts of psychological and physical issues from it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by dcvg69 View Post
    I had a major problem with my wife too. I did not realize it at first, but it turns out that I had a lot of resentment built up towards her because she was not putting out. My resentment was spewed out all at once during an hour-long ranting and raving session that was sparked by some stupid argument that had nothing to do with that. I hated that I was always the one who would initiate sex. I hated feeling like a horny dog that wants to hump all the time. I explained how terrible it felt when I thought that maybe she just did not find me good looking, exciting, or sexy any more, or that she just viewed me as an old perv. I became extremely irritated and downright angry when she would push me away in bed. I believed she was paying more attention to a bunch of stuff that was completely irrelevant to me (her soap operas or her long chats with her friends, etc.), and this burned me up inside. I reminded her that I had tried talking to her about this problem, but that she always trivialized the problem and basically ignored me. Nothing changed for so long and what the fuck was I supposed to do? Cheat on her? I let her have it. I told her how I felt, how she was making me feel, and that she was slowly driving me away and that I could not take it anymore. I really went off on her and made her feel like shit. I was sincere, and I think she realized what this was doing to me. In the end she realized what was going on and she apologized. I started to have incredible sex again, and much more often. Things have been great since that time. I could have sex every day if it were up to me and things are still far from what I would want them (sex 4-5 days/week), but they have improved quite a bit and I am OK with that. Talking to your wife works. You may have to try multiple times, and you may very well need to have a heated exchange for this to sink in to your wife, but if you keep trying, and if the two of you love each other, thern it will work. Be careful not to make things worse though - don't let this backfire on you.... Think about your approach ahead of time. You need to help her figure out what the lack of enough sex is doing to you.....
    In very simple terms, the simplest of terms actually, I know exactly what you did.

    All I can say is

    GREAT JOB!

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    Before my test took a shit, I was easily good for 2-3x per day...a session less than an hour was only for nooners to get back to work on time. Every 5 or 6 days I'd be warn out and take a day off then back at it. Sometimes good for a squirt 2x in a single session. Once my test went in the toilet, once a month was a good thing. Reality is most of us have our test levels the same as when we were 18 so our drive is the same. I can easily go a couple times per day again.

    My wife has gotten older and her hormones are outta whack so I just have to deal. Sometimes we'll go 2x, but usually once is good. Frustrating? Of course, but if you love your wife you have to understand and deal or it'll ruin the relationship. I feel for dcvg - know what he's talking about, but at least he knows the cause and how to compromise.

    Is this the downside to Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT)? Kinda but it's a helluva problem to have. I'd rather have this problem than not having any desire.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cjw2021 View Post
    You guys just gotta remember your girlfriend is probably not on hormones, and women get sexual exhaustion symptoms too. It's easy for us on TRT...we just wake up with another hardon the next day. But if you are a middle aged woman and expected to put out 6 days a week or more without hormones and neurotransmitter precursors it's just unhealthy. If you guys don't believe me when I talk about the damage excessive sex can do to people...please check out this website. Theory of Sexual Orgasm and Sexual Exhaustion Symptoms plenty of women there with all sorts of psychological and physical issues from it.
    Great stuff.

    I don't think anyone doubts your facts or statements, you just have to think about the message a little as well as where you are attempting to spread the message.

    As I understand it, from 3 different posts I have seen from you in the last week, you are essentially recommending sex no more than twice a week. Is that right, or did I miss something?

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    Oh, I should add sometimes I, like others, have to cope with once a week too. Not like we do it everyday all the time, but it's nice being able too!

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    How bout you slide it in her, and tell her to shut her mouth. .
    Some women need that

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    Quote Originally Posted by cjw2021 View Post
    You guys just gotta remember your girlfriend is probably not on hormones, and women get sexual exhaustion symptoms too. It's easy for us on TRT...we just wake up with another hardon the next day. But if you are a middle aged woman and expected to put out 6 days a week or more without hormones and neurotransmitter precursors it's just unhealthy. If you guys don't believe me when I talk about the damage excessive sex can do to people...please check out this website. Theory of Sexual Orgasm and Sexual Exhaustion Symptoms plenty of women there with all sorts of psychological and physical issues from it.
    Lol at that site and that "theory" total bunk IMO, people will assign their "psycholochical" issues to just about anything.

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    lol
    Last edited by cjw2021; 10-26-2011 at 09:04 AM.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cjw2021 View Post
    Deus I will delete this if you don't mind me reposting it, but both him and his wife require hydrocortisone cause they went at it so much. be careful. You don't have to listen to me. I don't really give a shit. everyone thinks they are invincible until they can't get out of bed and don't know why.
    Heh :-) best to know your patient better than a few postings.

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