Trouble getting a hardon/keeping it

[Greazy-Pickle]

bro,
i think you just thit the nail right on the head. As duded, when we are younger and just start getting experienced, we are trying to prove to the other person just as much as we are proving to ourself that "we are the man". Its normal. As we get older, i do believe the things change, and it sucks, because we may still have that physical need to prove that we are "the onlt game in town", that desire no longer applies itself to just any piece of ass. It "the special one" that you want to be the best you can be for. Then just when you think you find her and that passion and fire will stay lit forever, she either breaks your heart and fucks your whole world up, or on a lighter note, your relationship will take a different, natural turn, where the lust and crazy shit you did might taper off a bit cause the relationship has transistioned into something deeper and more meaningful than just the hardcore sex you are used to seeing in the flicks. This is where a ton of communication is needed, cause it can make you or break you. Good luck

Exactly... Chip perfectly executed. rep+

[DragonRider]

going to start my AI as i may have to much estrogen but well see.. Ill keep you updated

That would be my guess.

[John102london]

thx for the support fellas ill letu know how things pan out

[barnzy7]

From what I have read about it, its characterized by a low sexual desire except for when it comes to masterbation and porn. Ill try to find some info on it.

Ive heard of that before, nothing in reality lives up to the porn your so used to watching..also heard sometimes guys can get to the point where they dont even like sex and all they want to do is jack off..fuck that is what I say

[John102london]

the ship has sailed! i fucked a girl today and the fucker worked! lol.. I mean it wasnt like the old days where i could hang a wet towel off the thing but it was good enough! The only problem is i came in abouit 2 minutes HAHAHA.. Oh well that can be fixed.. i had my mind made up going in if i had the chance to go i was gunna and i dont give a shit how long it took haha !! Lets hope the problem doesnt arise again and things only get better from here on out.. I quit the porn and stoped spankin it haha

[o3clipsegts]

Haha every thread I start reading ends up being fucking hilarious. Im never gonna get to sleep. Glad everything worked out for the best bro!

[John102london]

i think everything is working just fine now... after that hood rat i stated above... i met this super nice girl and we have been hangin out all week.. plus my test kicked in forsure 100% and my bench increased by 20 lbs LOL.. which is fucked up.. but becides that.. she has no problems getting me going which is good.. Lets just hope it stays that way once im off cycle haha!!..

[3J]

well the only other thing that could be causing it is high estro levels..

u said ur on test right now.. finishing week 3? seems a bit early, but hey everybody is diff

whats your bf?? if you have a higher bf then u aromatize test to estrogen much quicker...

im hoping its just a psychological thing.. that's something u can get over with will..

if it continues.. maybe an AI will help...

i doubt its from high estrogen levels though..

just something to keep in the back of your mind.. u know. fyi



also, ur not taking anything like finasteride right?? or has there been a change in any medication or drugs u have been taking?

[getfitdoc]

this is why i like monogamy.

i know my girl is clean and kept how i like it, same for her about me.

i know what she smells like, and feels like... i don't like bodily surprises.

when i was younger i wish i had slept with more women, but now that im in a relationship, im very happy to only sleep with my girl.

[irishmaniac]

Then just when you think you find her and that passion and fire will stay lit forever, she either breaks your heart and fucks your whole world up,

exactly........

this is why i like monogamy.

i know my girl is clean and kept how i like it, same for her about me.

i know what she smells like, and feels like... i don't like bodily surprises.

when i was younger i wish i had slept with more women, but now that im in a relationship, im very happy to only sleep with my girl.

yeh, i agree with you......theres that special "something" that ya feel.... at least that was the case with me and my girl.

[557mustang]

3J never ceases to amaze me with his knowledge. In my experience cialas is great post cycle. And monogomy is much better as I get older.

[cyto33]

That would be my guess.

this what happened to me i started my AI and i lost my dick. i would become hard and pound for 15 min and then it was soft. i stopped the Ai and a week later solid as steel.

[3J]

3J never ceases to amaze me with his knowledge. In my experience cialas is great post cycle. And monogomy is much better as I get older.

i took cialis once.. not the liquid crap.. Rx stuff from a doc.. didn't do shit to me... didn't help me through my PCT sex drive.. i dunno.. maybe its just me

[numba1scrapper]

i took cialis once.. not the liquid crap.. Rx stuff from a doc.. didn't do shit to me... didn't help me through my PCT sex drive.. i dunno.. maybe its just me

nope, def not just you, I bought some a*** labs cialis and took it an hour before I planned on fucking. I felt no different whatsoever

[drewbolic]

this what happened to me i started my AI and i lost my dick. i would become hard and pound for 15 min and then it was soft. i stopped the Ai and a week later solid as steel.

Prolly was inhibiting to much estro...to low of estro can have libido side effects

[chevyon6s]

kinda odd the guy who has another thread about addicted to jerking off now cant get it up?....

best of luck my friend

[getfitdoc]

nope, def not just you, I bought some a*** labs cialis and took it an hour before I planned on fucking. I felt no different whatsoever

yup, it depends on why you're having problems.

cialis/levetra/viagra probably wont' help much:
if estro to low

if prolactin too high

if test is too low

I think you have to figure out the problem.

some possible problems:

test to low
estro to low
estro to high
prolactin to high
anxiety/stress to high
blood pressure to high
not attracted to mate
low self esteem

Those are some basics, again, im not a doctror, so don't take my word for it, just trying to help with by brainstorming a little.

[Jesky]

Start popping the cialis/viagra like skittles that should get things moving along haha

[numba1scrapper]

yup, it depends on why you're having problems.

cialis/levetra/viagra probably wont' help much:
if estro to low

if prolactin too high

if test is too low

I think you have to figure out the problem.

some possible problems:

test to low
estro to low
estro to high
prolactin to high
anxiety/stress to high
blood pressure to high
not attracted to mate
low self esteem

Those are some basics, again, im not a doctror, so don't take my word for it, just trying to help with by brainstorming a little.

so you cant take it just to have fun? Like..my dick gets hard pretty easily, but I've heard that it's a nice experience. lol... I took it and felt no different then I usualy would.

[DragonRider]

nope, def not just you, I bought some a*** labs cialis and took it an hour before I planned on fucking. I felt no different whatsoever

Viagra will work within an hour, but cialis doesn't, and if you don't need it, it doesn't add much to the experience for most people.
Like taking penicillin if you don't have an infection. What's it going to cure?

[numba1scrapper]

viagra will work within an hour, but cialis doesn't, and if you don't need it, it doesn't add much to the experience for most people.
Like taking penicillin if you don't have an infection. What's it going to cure?

oohh..gotcha

[Hacksquater]

Porn is fun (and very much a potential addiction) but eventually comes with consequences. This happened to me and I thought it was low libido. But it was caused by porn period (for many years). I had to quit it entirely and after a while things started to come back to normal again. I now have to avoid porn completely to have any healthy sex life. That is not f-ing easy! And yes it is that serious!

[MassRx]

Put the Fleshlight away for a couple days you'll feel much better.

[irishmaniac]

Porn is fun (and very much a potential addiction) but eventually comes with consequences. This happened to me and I thought it was low libido. But it was caused by porn period (for many years). I had to quit it entirely and after a while things started to come back to normal again. I now have to avoid porn completely to have any healthy sex life. That is not f-ing easy! And yes it is that serious!

dude. same thing happened with me. srs.

[Massive123]

Porn is fun (and very much a potential addiction) but eventually comes with consequences. This happened to me and I thought it was low libido. But it was caused by porn period (for many years). I had to quit it entirely and after a while things started to come back to normal again. I now have to avoid porn completely to have any healthy sex life. That is not f-ing easy! And yes it is that serious!

I agree 100%. Even tho I'm guilty of being pretty obsessed with porn, I think I'm gonna give it up. Shits the devil in disguise or something...I fuck hot girls no problem, don't get me wrong, just also got back from spring break and each night was a Porno scene of it's own, but for real much of it has been increasingly less and less mentally stimulating to me...and then because of that I can be in the middle of banging and just lose it. I guess it doesn't help that I just stopped running some banging test p eod, but still....

The worst IMO is when you're with a chick and she drops the "what's wrong?". I hear that....GAME OVER.

With that said- I'm officially done with porn for a while. Unfortunately most girls even if hot just aren't as sexy as watching Mrs.______ (fill in the blank) fuck her son's friend when he comes lookin for Johnny and Johnny isn't home.